The Forgotten Fob

We moved Rose back to the university yesterday.

She did all the packing. We just helped load and unload the truck.

Just before we left, as an afterthought, her dad suggested I check the medication drawer.

I did it just to make sure a bottle of medicine had not been inadvertently left behind.

What I found instead made my heart stop.

She had forgotten her fob.

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Her necklace with all her epilepsy information and a fob with emergency pills in it.

This is her lifeline.

(I had to pause while typing this and take a deep breath.)

I took the box with the necklace, tag and fob in it to where she was

and held it out for her to see it.

I told her “If you have a seizure and no one knows what to do you could die.”

She nodded and looked down guiltily. Her response was “I did die.”

“Yes,” I replied “but I saved you. I will not be there next time.”

She has had her helicopter mama all summer. Maybe she just forgot where it was?

Maybe she wants to believe epilepsy has left her.

It is a nice dream.

But she must be prepared for the next seizure, even if there never is one.

This epilepsy belongs to Rose now.

I hope she will not forget the fob again.

Seizure Mama = standing down.

 

 

 

Night Owl with a Day Job

We had our annual appointment with our hero neurologist yesterday.

Much of the appointment was spent discussing the importance of sleep.

Rose is a night owl.

She has a third-shift life while the rest of the world sleeps.

There is a kink in her schedule this summer.

She has a first-shift job.

Sleep deprivation is a seizure-provoker.

Rose cannot drive if she has another seizure.

A sleep-aid was prescribed.

Will she take it?

That’s up to Rose.

“Mama-Uber driver” would appreciate it.

Is Rose adult enough to make the best choice?

Old habits are hard to break.

I am hoping for wisdom and maturity.

We shall see.

Travelling Safely

Folks with epilepsy have a whole extra set of preparation for trips.

Rose packs seizure supplies in addition to everything else.

To prep for her trip with peers,

we purchased some downloads from The Epilepsy Foundation of America.

These were 8.5 by 11 inches.

I reduced them on my printer and printed them on card stock.

Then laminated them, punched holes and attached ribbons or clips.

Rose gave some to the people she will be travelling with.

She will also attach copies to her belongings.

That way there will always be instructions on what to do on hand

IF she has a seizure.

Proactive is so much better than reactive.

I will share this with the EFA.

Maybe they will produce something like this for travelers.

Stay safe,

Seizure Mama